It is my privilege to spend time with men, women, non-binary folks, and couples over the age of 21 who understand and value companionship that transcends traditional stereotypes! I do not discriminate against play partners based on race, gender, body size, disability, religion, or ethnicity. I offer a safe, judgment-free space for you to indulge in your deepest desires!

More often than not, yes! Although I started into the industry as an independent and maintain no agency/dungeon/house affiliation, I have had stints of employment at several collectives over the years. I insist you honor my current rates and availability if you choose to continue to play with me as an independent provider.

I do not include a phone call as part of my booking process.

If voice chemistry is an essential element for you, please note that my rate for phone conversations is $100 for up to 15 minutes or $250 for up to 60 minutes and is only possible after screening is complete.

Being respectful during our correspondence starts with completing a booking form and this step is not optional. All completed booking forms are given a response within five business days, though Proton Mail has a nasty habit of going straight to spam. Please check your spam folder for poorly filtered replies!

Additionally, I do not tolerate vulgarity. I will not hesitate to promptly delete and block any attempts at engaging me in inappropriate language. If “u avail?” inquiries are part of your routine approach, we will not be not a good match.

For everyone's security, I require screening for first-time play partners. Though different providers may ask for different details, formal screening is an industry standard most clients undergo when booking a new companion. Please understand that this is for the safety, security, and privacy of all parties! Any information I request will be kept strictly confidential as I too believe that discretion is the name of the game. To move forward with setting up our escape, I expect you to be prepared by attaching two recent provider references and/or following through with employment verification. Both options require you to submit a valid government-issued photo ID.

I do not accept P411, RS2K, Eccie, TER or any other hobby forum as absolute screening but you are welcome to supplement your form with one or more of these site handles.

In addition to your name, phone number, email address, and city of residence, I will need you to supply the following :

• Name of a provider you have seen in the last 12 months

• Link to provider's website or current advertisement

• Contact info for the provider

• Something the provider will remember about you

This option is best selected by clients who have recently seen well-established independent providers with adequate internet history and/or providers who I have spent time with over the years.

In addition to your name, phone number, email address, and city of residence, I will need you to provide the following :

• Company of employment

• Your position / title

• Company phone number - direct line or extension

• LinkedIn profile

I understand that it can be intimidating to disclose private information to someone you have not yet met. If you truly feel unable to offer up provider references or employment verification, I will not be able to move forward with an escape together. I hope you can respect the boundaries I have set for my livelihood and for my life!

I am happy to give a professional reference to other providers upon request, but only when you have given me explicit permission and have enjoyed a recent escape within six months. I require notice for each inquiry.

I offer up to two free references in a six month period but offer additional references when accompanied by a token of appreciation. Please send all gifts to $MissDaffnie or gift cards to MissDaffnie@protonmail.com.

I strongly discourage reviews, particularly because I feel the shared experience should be kept exclusively between the parties directly involved rather than being broadcast in a public forum. Thank you for respecting my no view policy and honoring my privacy!

Yes! All deposits act as a retainer for our escape at the agreed upon date, time, and location. They are non-refundable and non-transferrable.

I require a 20% deposit for the majority of Chicago bookings.

• All first-time play partners

• All escapes +4 hours

• All duo requests

• All outcall requests

• All outfit requests

• All play partners who have cancelled an escape within the past six months

I require a 50% deposit for select bookings.

• All bookings made with less than 48-hour notice

• All tour bookings

Once I have received your payment, I will send you a confirmation with our appointment date, time, and location details. Any amount sent in excess of the quoted denomination will be received as a tip and will not count toward the remaining balance.

I accept deposits via Cash App or select electronic gift cards. I can alternatively arrange to accept via Throne, if preferred, but it does come with a surcharge on their end

FMTY and other Destination Desire escapes require the cost of travel in addition to the 20% deposit. We can discuss details during the booking process.

I accept cash only upon arrival and prefer the utmost discretion. Regardless of whether we are meeting for a private escape or public social activity, I ask that you present the tribute in a gift bag, a good book, or simply in an envelope.

To ensure equal enjoyment, clients seeking duos should always prepare to rate match to the provider with the highest rate. This eliminates the awkwardness of exchanging two different amounts. This is the most appropriate etiquette and I will not tolerate penny pinching one provider while lavishing another. Generosity is always a huge turn on!

I’m grateful for my legacy play partners from over the years and look back fondly on the memories we have created. Not only has my continued experience made me a better provider, my upgraded quality of life has taught me that higher standards make me a better woman. My current rates reflect this growth.

Chicago is blessed with countless providers at every price point who deliver wonderful service! I hope you are able to find someone who can accommodate your budget, even if that person is not me.

Generally, discounts are not available. I offer a luxury escape from the mundane musings of daily routine. I will not waste my own time, nor yours, trying to convince you that our time together is worth your investment. My rates afford me the opportunity to be selective with what play partners I see and allow me the ability to enjoy a stress-free escape knowing my needs are met.

I do, however, have several packages with incentivized rates that may cater better to your financial restrictions.

• DREAM DINING

• MAKE IT RAIN

• TEAM SPIRIT

• EXPEDITION ELSEWHERE

I understand that life often throws us a curveball, but that is no excuse for not communicating the need to reschedule. Any need to change the confirmed details of our rendezvous will be subject to a full forfeiture of your deposit. All cancellation fees must be settled prior to rescheduling a new date and time as detailed below :

• If you cancel, postpone, or shorten our escape (+6 hours) within one week or less before the scheduled time together, a cancellation fee of 50% of the total original booking rate will be applied.

• If you cancel, postpone, or shorten our escape (90 minutes to 6 hours) within 72 hours or less before the scheduled time together, a cancellation fee of 50% of the total original booking rate will be applied.

• If you cancel, postpone, or shorten our escape (90 minutes to 6 hours) within 48 hours or less before the scheduled time together, a cancellation fee of 75% of the total original booking rate will be applied.

• If you cancel, postpone, or shorten our escape (90 minutes to 6 hours) within 24 hours or less before the scheduled time together, a cancellation fee of 100% of the total original booking rate will be applied.

• If you NCNS with me, you will not be given an opportunity to schedule a future booking with me.

If, on the rare occasion, I need to cancel or postpone our escape for a personal reason and/or emergency incall maintenance, I will offer the following options :

• Apply your original deposit to a future escape combined with a rate reduction for our rescheduled date and time.

• Return your original deposit and wish you well in case our paths do not cross again.

Assuming you are punctual and well-groomed, making sure you are not empty handed will definitely set you apart from the rest!

• Wishlist gifts

• Floral arrangements

• Rather, invest in my future! I appreciate folks who want to see me thrive for years to come with stocks, property, and assets to build my portfolio

If anonymous generosity or post-appointment thank yous are more your style, please send all gifts to my incall address.

I have several adventurous professionals that I work with on a regular basis, should you become interested. I will warn, though, we can be a LOT to handle! Despite the initial intimidation, double (or triple!) trouble has overwhelming benefits! If you have a special someone in mind, please let me know and we can see if that provider is available.

Check out my Little Black Book to find some of my favorite playmates!

I'm fortunate to have a space that accommodates plenty of toys, furniture, and variety for both mild and wild escapes!

To give you a better idea, I have an area for medical play, a bedroom area for more sensual exploration, and a mini lounge area that can easily transform into our own private strip club. I have a collection of equipment sure to impress! If you are interested in an exact toy or device, please detail your request during the booking process.

After you complete screening, I’m comfortable with a discreet conversation about your unique interests and experience level. Though, I always reserve the first 15 minutes of all Rough Water escapes for communication regarding play and safety for the upcoming scene.

I will not entertain discussions about alphabet soup (Ex : DATY, MSOG, DFK, PSE, CIM, BBFS, etc) or menu listings. I am not a diner. However, I will deliver you a unique experience sure to wet your tongue with delicious satisfaction. I appreciate those who know how to keep hobbyist lingo out of my inbox.

I identify as a switch, which is a term commonly used within the BDSM community to distinguish kinksters who are experienced and enjoy being both top and bottom dependent upon the partner, scene, power dynamic, or activity. Though I am swift handed when delivering a spanking, I, too, enjoy relinquishing my control in the context of certain play.

That said, I do have a specific first-time boundary for play partners looking to hone their dominant skills with me as their submissive. I require a fellow kink provider to be present for our introductory Rough Water escape together either as an observer, an instructor, or as a co-top. This not only preserves the integrity of the exploration but ensures my rosy cheeks are getting paddled pink correctly. Check out my Little Black Book to find some of my favorite Chicago-based mistresses!

Establishing risk-aware, consensual boundaries is beyond important for all participating parties. While these limits vary depending on the activity, power dynamic, or rapport between individuals, I take time at the start of each scene to discuss safety, allowances, likes, and dislike. Please be respectful of my rules as I will always be respectful of yours!

Dressing the part is something I don't take lightly and blending in with our venue is a must. I will never arrive underdressed or sloppily thrown together in a way that will bring us negative suspicion. I'm happy to accommodate simple requests for bedroom attire but prefer that you trust me enough to wear clothes that I know will tease you as I see fit.

Alternatively, being gifted beautiful pieces or going shopping together for new threads is always a sure way to guarantee we both love what gets to decorate my body until it inevitably slips off as sparks fly. If you really do have a specific outfit request that is essential for our scene, please see my premiums below.

• I require a $100 gift for all roleplay costumes, hosiery, or boot requests at the time of booking your escape.

• I require a $200 gift for all rubber requests at the time of booking your escape. Any rubber fetishist knows that a well-curated latex collection is a true investment. This labor of love goes beyond the initial purchase and extends to cleaning, polishing, storage, and gentle care of each gummi garment before, during, and after each wear. Most of my latex costs upwards of hundreds per piece and are custom sets that are truly irreplaceable should the fragile material get damaged during our time together. I hope you understand why this premium exists.

No two people are exactly alike and I feel the same way about intimate encounters! It is better for fun to develop organically than me trying to force each interaction into a cookie cutter mold. I will happily take the reins planning our date if you are running out of ideas for a shared experience together. I value authenticity and open communication before, during, and after our escape.

• INSPIRATION FOR CHICAGO

• INSPIRATION FOR THE MIDWEST

• INSPIRATION FOR ELSEWHERE

I pride myself on being punctual and expect all play partners to extend that same courtesy in my direction. While I do understand unavoidable tardiness sometimes happens, I ask that you communicate your estimated time of arrival. Let's start our time together respectfully!

• All escapes less than four hours will be voided after 30 minutes of tardiness. My full 100% cancellation policy does apply in this scenario.

• All escapes 4-16 hours will be voided after 60 minutes of tardiness. My full 100% cancellation policy does apply in this scenario.

• All escapes over 16 hours will be voided after two hours of tardiness. My full cancellation 100% policy does apply in this scenario.

I, like you, am a human being who is always a better version of myself when my basic needs are met!

• All 3+ hours escapes come with the expectation of small bites and/or drinks. Please let me know if prefer a nearby café, the hotel bar, or ordering room service.

• All 4+ hours escapes come with the expectation of a shared meal. Please let me know if you’d like to start with meeting at the restaurant or if you’d like to finish our time together at the restaurant.

If discretion concerns prevent us from dining out, please note a $500 premium will be added to my standard rate.

• All 8+ hours escapes come with the expectation of a shared meal and a social activity.

If discretion concerns prevent us from dining out or enjoying a public social activity, please note a $1,000 premium will be added to my standard rate.

• All 12+ hours escapes come with the expectation of 1-2 shared meals, a social activity, and at least four hours of uninterrupted rest.

If discretion concerns prevent us from dining out or enjoying a public social activity, please note a $1,500 premium will be added to my standard rate.

These also come with the expectation of, at least, two full bathrooms and a private area for me to store my things in our shared suite. I do not have a hard rule about separate hotel room reservations for extended escapes, though it is always a comfortable preference.

• All 24+ hours escapes come with the daily expectation of 2-3 shared meals, a social activity, at least six hours of uninterrupted rest, at least one hour of time alone to prep for the rest of the time together (Because, believe it or not, even cute girls like me still need some primping before getting the day started).

These also come with the expectation of, at least, two full bathrooms and a private area for me to store my things in our shared suite. I do not have a hard rule about separate hotel room reservations for full day escapes, though it is always a comfortable preference.

• All 48+ hours escapes come with the daily expectation of 2-3 shared meals, a social activity, at least six hours of uninterrupted rest, at least three hours of time alone to prep for the rest of the time together.

These also come with an additional expectation for a separate hotel room or a $1,000 nightly premium will be added to my standard rate.

• All travel arrangements come with the expectation that transportation in excess of two hours is in first or business class.

Yes! Secure access to my uncensored updates and preferred platform for custom clips with a one-time $50 membership fee. Payments can be sent to $MissDaffnie on CashApp with the memo “Sunflowers [Insert SC handle here]” and add @MissDaffnie to your Snapchat so I can approve the friend request.

If you have custom requests or want to show me any depictions of your excitement, please contact me directly with a photo ID for age verification. I will not engage in this type of virtual play with anyone who cannot comply with this request.

I do not currently upload to any of these platforms. If that changes in the future, my link page will reflect active accounts.

While many of you may remember me from my years of full time camming, I do not entertain a live audience through a screen very often. To see my lewds and nudes, my premium snapchat is the best place right now!

These popular phone sex platforms place rigid restrictions that I, apparently, could not adhere to and was consequently banned. Be that as it may, I do enjoy saucy phone calls and text exchanges.

If you would like to indulge with me through your handheld device, please contact me directly with a photo ID for age verification. I will not engage in this type of virtual play with anyone who cannot comply with this request.

• Daily email or texting - $200

• Weekly email or texting - $1,000

• 60 minute voice call - $250

• 60 minute video call - $350

I don’t cam or create content from home. On the fly video calls and short notice customs are not something I accommodate. Please note all virtual services must be pre-paid and pre-scheduled.

My debut onto a club stage was in 2007 and I‘ve been dancing ever since. Playing dress up under neon lights, flirting in champagne rooms until the sun bursts over the horizon, and giggling atop a cute person’s lap just felt like a natural way to spend a weekday night for many years. Though I have danced in most major cities in the States and even done features internationally, my favorite spot was right here in my hometown.

COVID forced me to trade in my dance card for a vaccine card. I have not graced a Chicago club since November 2019.

I have, however, continued to dance across the country and post my sporadic strip trip appearances across all social media platforms.

Absolutely! A proper celebration between trusted friends is just not complete without some high-energy cuties prancing in stilettos. I have several co-twerkers who accept bookings with me and we will definitely bring the party to your hotel room. The person planning the event and the guest of honor must both complete screening. All attendees must all be over the age of 21. Please contact me directly for rates and availability.

Yes please! I added my Make It Rain escape package exactly for this reason.

I flaunt an all-natural figure without tattoos, facial piercings, body piercings, or colored hair. Many people know of my involvement with the flesh hook suspension community, but you would never know it by looking at me!

Luckily, no. Variety is the spice of life and my palate craves a variety of cuisine!

Some favorite flavors include :

• Fruit - Pineapple, passion fruit, figs, berries, dark cherries, stone fruits

• Cheese - No bleu, please!

• AM Beverages - Light roast coffees, strawberry matcha, non-dairy milk lattes, cold-pressed juices, herbal iced teas

• PM Beverages - Grower champagnes, crisp whites, spicy reds, traditional mead, Japanese whiskey, Kentucky bourbon

• Treats - Baked confections, candied nuts, sea salt caramel, dark chocolate

I'm a Capricorn and my driven personality is sure to live up to the expectation. My special day is December 23rd!

Community organizing and sex worker rights are the pillars of this initiative I dove head first into in 2015. I started hosting a provider social as a way to build rapport and camaraderie with other local babes in a rare, non-client-facing atmosphere. This quickly grew into a monthly brunch and annual Friendsgiving event attended by sex workers across all sectors of this industry. It was a lovely way to connect with anyone working in Chicagoland at that moment.

In 2020, I discontinued this monthly gathering because I wanted to respect the new risks a rapidly evolving pandemic presented. Like many things that I miss, I sincerely hope to see a revival of these brunches as soon as there is a safe and responsible way to host a large group and still maintain privacy concerns for everyone who wants to join.

In 2023, I brought the event back in a reduced capacity as a quarterly installment. Please contact me directly if you are interested in a sponsoring an upcoming brunch. Sponsorships always warm my heart and will go towards supplies, food, transportation, and other event accommodations.

After 10+ years of being a provider in this beautiful industry, I'm fortunate to call this business home! I am a happily retired healthcare professional and no longer hold any employment outside of the adult realm. Aside from being a career companion, you will find me dancing the night away select evenings of each month.

I juggle a collection of volunteer commitments that often get priority placement on my calendar. This is a big reason why I prefer pre-bookings rather than same-day requests.

I’ve professionally toured across four continents and have spent time in 30+ countries but I hope to see my passport collect new stamps every year! I have a fun map hanging in my incall that documents my global visits. Perhaps it will even give us some inspiration of where we can jet off to next!

I enjoy a variety of activities, including :

• Being a foodie and trying out new restaurants

• Logging hours for my private pilot license

• Hiking a new trail with my pet pig

• Dancing to live music

• Cracking open a new book under a cozy blanket

• Home brewing and craft beer fests

• Baking a new recipe at home and enjoying the sweet results

• Expressing political passion through activism and community organizing

• Beekeeping and getting my hands dirty in my garden

• Last but not least, jet setting and making memories around the globe.